Has it ever happened to you to have one of those days where you feel like nothing pleasures you. You do not have appetite, you feel empty like you have nothing. Well my dear friends this very thing happened to me, because I was stuck doing nothing with my life.
You may think that this has nothing to do with being free but you are wrong.
It all happened after I finished my bachelors degree. I thought that taking a year off University would help me financially and find myself. After a few months working different jobs I found something ok that was within my field. At the very beginning I was happy that I had a job, but after awhile I started getting this feeling of being lost. I was stuck in the same routine every day. With the money I earned I could only pay rent. I couldn’t afford trips or to buy something extra for myself.
This isn’t it! On top of everything else, I was in a relationship that was going wrong in a thousand different ways.
We all have dark days but in that very moment I thought that I was losing myself.
In that moment, when I was at my lowest point ever… I decided to say no to everything that was pulling me down. I decided that I wouldn’t stay around people who try to make me feel down all the time ever again.
Just a few months after l took that decision my life started improving. I stopped being worried about what other people were saying. I stopped being worried about my future. I realized that nothing is more important than me.
During this time I got better and better. I started dating a great guy. Different from the kind of guys I was used to dating. After I quit my job I started taking online courses on web design and development. At the same time, I was doing my masters in Marketing. I started working as a freelancer, this helped bring enough income to take care of myself.
My life had taken a turn for the better. And look where I am today, traveling the world. I work and I travel all the time.
I’m happier than ever and I will never let negative people in my life again.
My dear friends I’m sharing these parts of my life with you because I know most of you don’t have it easy or have rich parents 😉. Just like me. I want all of you to know: If you are stuck doing nothing with your life it’s time to do something about it.
Quit your job if you don’t like it and find something else that pleasures you. Do not spent anymore time doing something you hate for 8 hours a day every day. Every moment counts. Do things that bring you joy and happiness. Take courses, increase your abilities and I promise that the more things you know how to do, the easier it’ll be to find something you will like.
Do you have negative friends and people around you? People who can’t stop talking about others. People that judge you, your body, or your life. If you have friends like this, believe me it’s time to be as far as possible from them. They don’t deserve you. Spend your time with positive people who don’t put your down.
Say no to your boyfriend, the world doesn’t revolve around him. If he hurts you once, twice, believe me he will do it again. This type of relationship is an abusive relationship and needs to end otherwise it will continue until your self esteem is gone. There are plenty of guys out there and you will find someone who will make you happy and love you for who you are. I might look feminist saying this, but girls who needs a boyfriend to be happy 😄😉
If you are stuck and bored with the life your have. It’s time to do something that will make you happy.Being happy means being free. Looking forward to the future and embracing it.